A Just Three Minutes Story by Donna Marie Todd
I did something totally outrageous this month.
I paid someone to power-wash the exterior of my house because I was tired of looking at life through dirty windows.
While the man washed the dirt off outside, I washed the windows on the inside.
When we finished, my view of the river was more beautiful than ever. As I sat down on the porch, a gorgeous sunset spread itself across the sky and I could see every color clearly.
My friendly heron did a fly by.
Through my clean windows, I could see interlacing intricacy of her blue and grey feathers. What an utterly spectacular creature she is! Watching her fly across the expanding purple-pink sunset made my power-washing and inner sweat equity worth every penny!
Which makes me wonder, isn’t a clear picture of life worth almost any price?
It certainly was when I had cataract surgery. I didn’t want to do it but the doctor threatened to pull my driver’s license, that’s how bad my vision was. “You’re looking through pillow cases at a very blurry world” he said as he scheduled the surgery.
The eye surgeon was a legend in his own mind, but he was utterly right about seeing clearly.
$3700 later I could see beautifully through the eye he worked on. But I was shocked to see some old woman’s face in the mirror as I walked in. Who was that? Oh no! She was me! When did I get that many wrinkles? And how long had those cobwebs been draped across the ceiling? How could I not see those? They were huge!
Two weeks and another $3700 later, I could read again!
I could see so well, I didn’t even need glasses anymore! Wow! I was so excited I spent an entire afternoon reading all the labels in my kitchen.
Psychotherapy was equally revealing and cleared up my inner vision.
When I saw myself through a kinder lens, why I did certain things was no longer so confusing. Therapy cleaned the blinders of my childhood and I’m so grateful for that. Best money I ever spent!
Seeing clearly is very exciting.
It’s so revealing and empowering, I wonder why I don’t do it more.
Ooo! Can you imagine what a clear view of politics would look like?
Or religion? Or sexuality? It seems our lenses have gotten pretty dirty.
If we cleaned up our view and could see things more clearly, maybe what we don’t understand about each other would make more sense.
© Donna Marie Tood